book, Same as Ever - Wounds, Scars

Wounds May Heal, But Scars Remain

When wars end, economies can be rebuilt, but the wounds in our hearts aren't so easily mended. Once our minds have expanded, it's hard to return to our former selves.

A friend once told me how dramatically philosophy changed them. 

They said they now know so much more, but with that knowledge comes greater pain. There's no going back to who they were before.

One of the most painful experiences is conflicting with others. 

I often find myself at odds with people, more often than I'd like to admit. 

At first, I couldn't understand them. 

I'd constantly think, "Why are they like this?" or "Are they trying to challenge me?"

Fortunately, this book I read shed some light on the cause. It breaks down like this:

Different experiences → Different perspectives → Psychological discomfort → Conflict

Our unique experiences shape our views. 

When we're unaware of others' perspectives, it leads to discomfort and, ultimately, conflict. 

This pattern repeats itself endlessly.

As we navigate our social lives, 

we become curious about others' backgrounds. 

Looking back, I realize this curiosity was an attempt to minimize that psychological discomfort.

While some people manage to transcend these challenges, 

I'd like to end this year on a positive note. 

So, I'll wrap up my thoughts here.